Spiders!!!! EEEEKKKKK!!!

This is me and my bud Alex (yes another wedding pic, it’s all I have people)! I have known him for as long as I have been with my husband but we have a special bond. Alex is always available to be a listening ear and he is always good about pumping you up. He has the biggest heart of anyone I know and is very much a good person, even though he would act like his heart is made of stone!! My husband and I are so thankful to have him in our lives and I hope he truly knows that.
If we are talking about a thing and not someone I would have to say my house…. My husband and I worked hard for this and we deserve it and we appreciate being able to live in such a nice place. I think part of this being so special is that its our first place together and the place where we will raise our children.
This letter is for my future baby…
For many years I wasn’t sure if I wanted to have kids because I worried I wouldn’t be a good mother. I worried I wouldn’t know what to do and I wouldn’t know how to love you or teach you the right things. I worried that I wouldn’t be able to teach you to be a strong person and be who you want to be. But this all changed a year ago after I pictured holding you in my arms. I could see myself smiling and I could see your dad standing next to me with a smile from ear to ear. I started to picture you growing up and you happy and healthy. Then I could see you having your first heart break and your dad consoling you and making it better. I see you as the strong person who is secure in them self and I realize I helped create you and mold you into this person. From that day on I have wanted you and prayed about you and can’t wait until the day is right and you come to meet us.
This is actually two pictures….I am breaking the rules!
The first is the death of my brother Daniel. He was a step brother who became family because of marriage but he was our brother and his death was sudden and horrible. I am sad that he left this world and left his daughter and his family. My brother wasn’t perfect but he didn’t deserve anything that happened and I know justice will come one day.
The second is the death of my mother in law. She was taken by cancer and has left a whole in our family; one that I’m not sure will ever be filled. I miss her ever day and think about her constantly.
My mom. She had my brother and me when she was young and she tried to raise us the best way she knew how. She didn’t raise me for a majority of my life but was somewhat of a constant in my life. As I got older and let go of the past I embraced her and loved her for who she was and the things she did teach me. After many years I was finally able to accept all the amazing qualities she gave me. She taught me to accept people for who they are and love them for their flaws. She showed me that people do deserve a second, third, fourth, and fifth chance in life. But the biggest life lesson was her hard working attitude. She works hard for what she has and has given me that drive to work for the things you want because they will not be given to you. My mom is an amazing Grandma who loves her three grandchildren with everything in her soul and I admire that. I can’t wait for her to be a grandma for our children because I know she will be a lasting blessing in their lives.